Thursday, July 12, 2007

Harmony in family!

We have been married for 9 years. Our marriage has been a happy marriage and we have two lovely kids. Recently, our relations started souring. We could not find out what went wrong. We just did not agree on anything and fought all the time. I could see that it was affecting our kids life. They were scared all the time. Finally, even after my trying to save the marriage, he decided that we need to go our separate ways. I told him to think about our children’s future, he said that he will keep them and take care of them. You are free to go anywhere and live happily. I did not know what to do. I had given so much to this marriage. I never considered making a career for myself and was solely dependent on him. Since, he did not seem to be considerate at all of my position; I had to leave the house. I took shelter in one of my relative’s home. It was difficult for me to bear the pain. I cried day and night and missed my children. My cousin told me about Peer Syed Saheb one day and suggested calling him for help. I called him and just cried and cried. I could not even define my problem completely. He heard me patiently and told me that don’t worry. The person who has caused you such pain, will come and ask for apology. The same weekend, my husband came with the children. While my children were with my cousin, he came and said sorry. He requested me to come back to him as he can not imagine living his life without me. He said he doesn’t know what had happened to him, but he promised that it will never happen again. This is all that I wanted. I am so happy to get my home and my love back in my life. Now we are again a happy family and none of us can imagine a life without each other. Thank you so much Peer Saheb. Please accept your daughter’s blessings – for you proved to be my caretaker in this unknown country. Thank you very much.

My hard work..finally..paid off!

I have worked very hard in this country to create property here. I cherish my house which is a beautiful two family house. I live in one part and lease the other part for rent so that I can repay the loans on the house. I have always had good tenants, but last time, I somehow made a mistake. I let my house out to some foreigners. They were 2 students earlier, but soon 2 more moved in and they requested me to accommodate for a couple of months. I accepted their request thinking they are students, how could they pay more. Soon they started creating a nuisance. They started getting their women friends at the house and they used to party all night. There was smoke and booze flowing, though I had mentioned it in advance that I am a Muslim and there should be no drinks brought to the house. When I confronted them and told them to vacate my house on these grounds, they simply refused. They said do whatever you can. We are not vacating. I knew that if I went to the court, it will take around 6 months, and they will not pay the rent. I could not afford to pay the loans without the rent income. I called Peer Syed Saheb and requested him to help me to save my life’s earning. He agreed to help me. After two weeks, the leader of this gang, called me and requested to meet me. We met outside our house. He told me that he is vacating the place this weekend. He also told me that he does not have enough money to pay off the total rent, and that he will pay 50% of it only. I was glad that I was getting something out of it. I thanked him. They actually vacated the house that very Saturday and gave me the check for the balance money. Thank you so much Peer Saheb. You helped me save my house. Shukriya.

Regained my status!

I am new to the USA. I am still on H1B and working very hard to live here and earn a decent living for myself and my family. Recently, I lost my job due to some problems in the office. I had to find a job immediately to keep my H1B on status. I tried finding a job, but it did take a long time for me to find the job. I was out of job for 4 months and then I got my next assignment. We filed for my transfer, but my lawyer was not sure that my case will be approved as I did not have current pay stubs. He said that I was already out of status, and the Department might just deport me. Soon, there was a query on my case, and though we did send the reply, my lawyer told me to keep my bags packed already as he was sure that the case will be declined. I was very upset as I was in no position to return to my home country at this time. In my desperation, I called Peer Syed Saheb. He told me that I could stay here and this same company will agree to file for my Green Card as well. He assured me that he will help me and also told me to start making plans for the future here. To tell the truth, I did not relax a bit. After two weeks, my lawyer called me and told me that he is very surprised. He has received an approval for my case. I was thrilled. Thank you so much Peer Saheb. Now I can stay back here and plan for my future. You were my only friend in the time of distress when no one else could have helped me, you did. How will I ever repay you? Thank you so much.

Hats off to such a visionary

I have been married for almost 4 years now. Initially, it was excellent. We were both very happy and due to our careers, we did not plan a child. Of late, I just lost interest in sex. I could not bring myself to perform and satisfy my partner. Slowly, it started affecting our marriage. She became irritable and we started fighting a lot. This was a serious issue, coz we had not even completed our family. My friends and relatives were already asking us for a good news and I did not know what to tell them. I just did not know how to bring it up for a discussion with any one. I was ashamed to talk about it. One day, I gathered courage and during an intimate discussion with my closest friend, I confided in him. I told him everything about my problem and its effects on my life. He listened to me sympathetically and then suggested that I should call Peer Syed Saheb. He himself had similar situation and Peer Saheb brought him out of it. I called Peer Saheb and told him about the problems. He told me that I should go out with my wife for a holiday this weekend. I did as he told me to do. I was surprised when I could sustain myself and my wife had a glowing face next morning. All the disagreements vanished after that and soon we were talking about the names of our babies. We came back from the holidays totally charged up and there have been no problems since then. We both are very happy and she is in the 4th month of her pregnancy. All this was possible because of Peer Syed Saheb;s help. I was too ashamed to talk to anyone about it, but he understood without too many embarrassing questions. Thank you so much Peer Saheb, for being my best friend in the time of need. God bless you.

The protective force..

I am a happily married woman. My husband is very nice person. He is a family man who cares for all of us. Recently, something happened to him. He was having terrible nightmares. He would start screaming in sleep and when I woke up to check him, he looked terribly haunted. He woke up with sweat on his whole body. I was worried for him and tried all the household remedies to get him rid of this problem. I did keep a knife under his pillow, gave his warm milk to drink at night so that he could sleep well, but nothing helped. I got really scared when he told me that he dreamt that somebody was tried to strangle him and I found blue-black marks on his neck. We went to the doctor and they said that it is possible that a person can hurt himself in dream. The treatment will take a long time and we saw that his condition was getting worse. I called Peer Syed Saheb and asked for help. He said he could help. It took almost a week, but slowly he stopped getting those dreams and he stopped hurting himself in his sleep. Now he is fine. He told me yesterday that he saw a dream that we all were in Switzerland for the summer vacations. I was so happy that he has become normal again. Thank you so much Peer Saheb. I don’t know what we would have done without you.

Magician at work..

My daughter is quite good looking and born and raised in US. Like every father, we were proud of our daughter and when the right time came, we decided to find a suitable boy and get her married in a respectable family. When we arranged for one of the family friend’s family come and visit us to see our daughter and get to know her, my daughter was told about it. We were not at all ready for her reaction. She got very angry and told us that we do not have any right to take a decision about her life. It is her life and she will take this kind of important decision on her own. We asked her if she knew any one whom she was interested in introducing to us. She refused to answer our question saying it is her personal life and thus nobody’s business. We were shocked. She had always been a very obedient daughter. We did not know what happened to her suddenly. Before we could come to terms with this, after two days, our daughter left home. She left a note saying she wants to make something of her life and thus wants to be alone for a while. We tried her everywhere. Called all her friends, but no one was able to tell where she was. It was 2 weeks and we did not hear anything from her. My wife fell sick thinking of her fate. We tried everything, but even police could not help us finding her. When we were very desperate and had lost all hopes of finding her, we approached Peer Syed Saheb. He told us that she is overseas and can be brought back before she makes a grave mistake. We requested him to help us out. After waiting for 4 days, we got a call from my daughter from Mumbai. She said she had gone to Mumbai to try her luck in the movie industry there and she was very lonely. She cried a lot and said that she was missing us badly. We just didn’t know how to reach there fast to help us. Fortunately, we had a relative in Mumbai, whom we contacted and requested them to take care of her. Now she is back in US and she is engaged to a very good boy who is working for a huge corporation here. She seems to be happy. We have also forgiven her and forgotten what happened. We have not told anybody that she had left home like this. I am extremely thankful to Peer Syed Saheb for his timely help which saved my daughters life from getting ruined. Thank you Peer Saheb. Please come for our daughter’s wedding to bless her personally.

Ressurected my roots...

I am from UP territory in India. We were farmers and we had huge lands in village of UP. We had a large joint family and we were all very closely knitted. But after my father’s death, the family broke. I moved to US and soon my mother also joined me here. The properties in village were left with my cousins to take care of. I never asked them anything about how they handled their business or how they invested my share. When I had a son myself then I realized that he inherited a lot of property which should be transferred in his name. when I confronted my cousins and asked them to arrange to make documents in my son’s name, they got annoyed and said you do not have any rights on the farms here as you have not been taking care of it. I tried to reason with them, but everything failed. They threatened me that if I ever set foot in the village, I will be murdered with my whole family. I knew that my family had clout in the village and it was possible to do what they threatened. I was busy in work here and it was not possible for me to go to India and fight them in court of law. When I saw Peer Syed Saheb’s ad, I thought of asking for help from them. He did some prayers for me and after two months, my cousin telephoned me and invited me for his daughter’s marriage. He also said sorry for his earlier behavior and asked me to come and bless his daughter. I was slightly scared in going there, but on syed Saheb’s encouragement, I went to India and attended the wedding. After the ceremony was over, my cousin was emotional and called me into his room and gave me the property papers saying that your son is like my son, and I don’t intend to keep his share of property. I was touched by this gesture and made him the caretaker of the property. Now, he keeps me informed of the accounts related to my share. By Peer saheb’s help, I got my family back. Now I visit India every two-three years, and my children get the opportunity to know our extended family and understand our culture. Thank you so much Peer Saheb.

We had disputes...ultimately my son realized..

I love my children a lot though I am unable to show it all the times like most of the men of my age. I know that a father should become a friend of the son, when the son is old enough to wear the father’s shoes. I tried my best to be friendly to my son, but there have been differences and the distance kept growing. When he asked me for financing his new business venture instead of taking care of my vast businesses, I lost my temper. I told him that first he has to prove his capabilities in running my existing business successfully, then only I will think about investing in his new revolutionary ideas. But these days, the kids don’t have patience. He has some bad friend circle too and I am sure that’s the main reason of his being spoiled. He just decided to walk out on me. He left the home and told me that I should not expect to see his face again. His mother tried to reason with him, but nothing worked. He left with a couple of his friends, who were waiting outside during the tension in our home. Later, some friends of mine tried to talk to him to bring him back, but he refused to return and I heard that he started living with a white woman too. I did not know what to do. After losing all hopes, I contacted Peer Syed Saheb and requested him for help. He told me that I will have to wait for 2 weeks for his return. I agreed. What other choice did I have? After a week and a half, my son came back home around 2.30 a.m. He came quietly, with his own set of keys and went to his bedroom. We were shocked to see him in his room the next morning, but as already suggested by Peer Saheb, we did not question him. We behaved as if everything was normal. My wife gave him breakfast in his room and I avoided seeing him during dinner as well. He came to me for a man-to-man chat on the weekend, when he asked me if I was serious that I would consider investing in his business after he proved himself in my business. I am so happy now. My son has proved to be a great success. We are looking for a suitable girl for him to get him married now. Thank you Peer Syed Saheb. Thank you so much.

i was always a bachelor..he made me eligible

I was around 39 years and still a bachelor. Though I was making good money and had a good friend circle – I was ready to settle down and was in need of a partner to share my life with. My parents were looking for a girl for me in India, but somehow, there were problems. Sometimes I did not like the girl and at times, the girl’s family rejected me due to my age and since I have been living in US for a long time, they could not believe that a man could be in US for such a long time, and could be un-attached. So we were not able to finalize any proposal. I tried dating here and failed miserably (I am an ordinary looking man and a little short heighted too). The girls around here were just not interested in me. I saw an ad of Peer Syed Saheb and called him to ask when will I get married. I insisted that he give me a date or a year. He told me that there is a girl who has been waiting for me very patiently. I was surprised and thought that it was a joke. I told him to give her my telephone number so that she can call me. He said OK, if you so wish. I was surprised when two days later a woman called me and asked for an appointment with me to meet me in my office for a business deal. I had forgotten about Peer Syed Saheb’s declaration by then. This woman came to meet me in my office around 12.00. I was surprised to see her. She was pretty and very poised and confident woman. We just could not stop talking. After our business discussions were over, we both went out for lunch and soon after that we met outside for dinner. It took just two weeks for me to realize that she was the one I was waiting for – and I proposed to her. She blushed and accepted. We are getting married this December. She is everything that I always dreamed for and never thought I could achieve. She is a friend, a companion, a true partner. I have since called Peer Syed Saheb many times to thank him and we fixed our wedding date after consulting with him. I will never be able to thank him enough. God bless him.

Monday, July 9, 2007

He changed my life.....Peer Syed Saheb

I have been in the United States for more than 15 years. I am now a teacher by profession. I had to leave my job and move to another state with my husband. Even after trying in many places and a lot of interviews, I was somehow not able to get a job of my choice.

Either they were small schools or very far away or they did not require a teacher of my qualifications. I was sitting at home for quite some time and was getting frustrated. Nothing seemed to be working for me. One Tuesday afternoon, out of desperation, I called Peer Syed Saheb to ask when the right time starts for me - when I will be able to get a decent job. He told me that the right time is always NOW.

It will start whenever I want it to start. I was surprised by his answer and told him that I have not been able to get myself a job for a very long time. He asked me if I really cared enough for one. I said of course I did. He assured me that things will be fine. I just have to keep trying and then I can join from next week mostly. I attended my next interview on Thursday and came back home with a great job offer. I called him immediately and when he came on line, he just asked me – when are you joining?

I was first surprised and then delighted by his confidence. Now I have been working with the same school for more than a year. Things are going fine and I really enjoy my job. And, of course, it pays well too…

I am very thankful to Peer Saheb and I strongly recommend him to everybody whoever has a problem that they have not been able to handle on their own.


Thank you Peer Syed Saheb.